Merriam-Webster defines gender as the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex. “Typically associated” does not mean limited to but this seems to have been lost in translation. Instead of saying men and women do not have to display any traits typical of their sex, people want to raise their children gender neutral. In my opinion this is more damaging than helpful. As parent it is our job to help children cultivate their identity and biological sex is a part of our identity as much as our skin, height, hair and all other physical traits. A human with a penis is a man and a human with a womb is a wom(b)man. This has nothing to do with socialization or societal norms and is a general descriptive term. Now when you add in the convoluted idea of gender which is a social construct shit gets real confusing.
Society has developed strict gender roles and limits expression by biological sex which became known as gender and separate from sex. Anyone whose expression falls outside of these norms no longer identify with their gender associated with their sex but gender is just a social construct. Its literally nothing but limitations created by small minded people. Yes, majority of men and women do behave a certain way and prefer certain activities naturally along with having certain skill sets but there are always those who fall outside the “normal” range or the bell curve. Instead of recognizing that over 30% of people will fall outside of the bell curve and knowing it is normal, society shuns them because of their unique expression. The individual begins to think they were born the wrong sex because if they were the other sex then his or her expression would be socially accepted. Now they develop gender dysphoria but gender is not even real. In actuality, they don’t have the problem, society has the problem because gender is a social construct.
FLUIDITY OF EXPRESSION
Every woman expresses her femininity different just as every man expresses their masculinity different. If you are born with a womb you represent the feminine force and if you are born with a penis you represent the masculine force but there are no rules on how you express yourself.
Traditionally people look at masculine and feminine as opposite ends of the spectrum represented by the straight line in the diagram, when it is a circle with points on opposing sides but still connected. The expression is fluid and is one cipher, it can change throughout a person’s lifetime or vary based on their environmental influences. Even how we perceive the cipher can program us to see masculinity as more separate. Simply placing the words masculine and feminine on the inside of the circle makes them appear closer together. Perception is everything and we use norms to help us understand the world. For example, those with penises tend to fall closer to the masculine side and those with wombs tend to fall closer to the feminine side but those are just observations. It is natural for those with common physical characteristics to exhibit other similarities. However society has allowed this to become a limitation. It is a mistake to limit anyone’s expression based on observations of the “norm.” It is also “normal” for over 30% to fall outside of the norm, so what is normal really. We must free our minds and allow for the fluidity of expression for everyone. Society’s rigid rules and a need to fit everything and everyone in a box has created a gender identity crisis. And instead of looking at the root of the problem people have created the idea of gender neutral which is causing more confusion and encouraging people to mutilate perfectly healthy parts of their body in an attempt to fit the norm. This is a sign of a sick society with a harmful culture.
Fuck gender! It isn’t real. What is gender appropriate varies from culture to culture which is proof it is a social construct which has become the source of a lot of hurt and confusion. I understand parents not wanting to limit their children’s expression by their sex but to ignore their biological sex is rejecting a part of their identity. In an attempt to give them freedom to form their own identity parents are not recognizing a very basic, if not the most basic part of their children. A little boy and girl can look at each other naked and clearly see a difference and in a gender neutral culture this difference is not qualified. Just as some people have curly hair and others straight, some of us have wombs & vaginas while others have penises and testes and that is natural. Let’s not deny nature because society has created this limited idea of gender which is completely unnecessary. Those with penises can wear dresses and makeup and are still men by nature and those with wombs can never desire to have children or be a dainty flower and still are women by nature. All expressions are acceptable and represent the range of humanity. There are no limits on our expression and when we attempt to limit our expression we cause psychosis in those who naturally fall outside the limits. Instead of confusing our children and leaving them to figure out the link between biological sex and socialization, lets remove the limits in US culture and do away with social constructs that harm personal expression. Why make more social constructs to counteract other social constructs when we can just get rid of the original social construct. Less is more and simple is better. Bliss and love infinite souls.
After centuries of programming, misinformation, fearmongering and terrorism a lot of black people fear creating their own. Are black people not free to create everything for themselves just as the racist founding fathers of the US came to a land that wasn’t theirs and created their own? They instilled a culture and system to ensure their progeny would thrive. Systematic racism is the foundation of the US system. That is the reason racial classification exists, it is a new age caste or serf system. They didn’t even create the system to benefit all “white” people. With such a fuck up system in place in the US why are so many “black” people afraid to have their own?
“Black” people have been miseducated about their rights and origins in the land known as America and therefore the path to true freedom is not known or recognized. There were many dark-skinned cultures thriving in America before Columbus and other Christians (Europeans). This is documented in Columbus’ diaries. Freedom from the oppression of the US lies in the claiming roots in the landmass known as America and invoking our indigenous status. Indigenous people have a right to self-govern as documented by the UNITED NATIONS’ Declaration of Human Rights and Rights of Indigenous People and the US has agreed. This is a simple path to freedom but US school curriculum only teaches the Transatlantic slave trade and black people only having roots in Africa prior to Columbus. In actuality, prior to Christian (European) exploration the rest of the world was traveling, trading and having cultural exchange everywhere. Those in Africa were sailing to America, Asia & all over and vice versa. All cultures trace their roots back to dark-skinned people. The dark skin people are a global people that went by any names and had many cultures. If there is proof that dark skin people were already settled in America but the natives are portrayed as a light-skinned hybrid people then what happen to all the dark-skinned people? Many were murder but many were kidnapped into slavery where families were broken up and history was never allowed to be taught and then they were fed this story of all being brought here from Africa. Some indeed made the journey from Africa but many did not.
Misinformation is a part of the programming instill by US culture and they use education and media to program “black” people against their own interest. Most US citizens in general do not understand the power in titles and what claiming certain titles mean. We were never taught that we have options in the titles we claim and different titles come with different rights. We were never taught to claim our indigenous status and instead are pushed to maintain the title black which the US controls. Much like the serf system had peasant, nobles, lords and kings with certain rights and privileges, race in the US is the same concept and in actuality all the races have been robbed of their right to freedom and are nothing more than regulated commerce. So now we are seeing a push for all things black, from black lives matter to black girls rock to black owned business. As long as people claim titles that don’t belong to them then they are subject to the rules and regulations that govern those titles. This is where many of the freedom fighters of the past went wrong. They continued to claim the title of black and then break laws that govern the titles allowing their murder and imprisonment to be lawful in the eyes of international law. The Black Panthers were fighting for Human Rights, in fact what the government later coined Civil Rights Movement was originally the fight for Human Rights but as a misinformation tactic they changed the name to hide the nature of the true root of oppression. Black people are being denied human rights because they are not seen as human in US law which numerous court cases have upheld time and time again. If black people were seen as human then there would be no need for 14th amendment, they would have been recognized as included in the phrase All men are created equal in the Declaration of Independence and the US constitution would have been sufficed but they are not and 14th amendment citizens were created and then all races placed under this amendment.
UNDERSTANDING THE PLAN
After facing generations of government sanctioned terrorism for creating their own communities and building wealth, many are scared to take a major stand and commit to creating their own government. Most believe this will take a war because of the examples of US Revolutionary War and the Civil War but our (r)evolution is simply claiming our indigenous status and our right to self-govern which the US openly recognizes. The US media is nothing but misinformation and distraction to keep people under the spell of the US government. They use politics as the blame for stagnation in US policy and change, when they all work for the same agenda which is to keep the US citizens under their control and working to build wealth for the few. The tv shows, sports and movies are made to entertain people until they die. How can people work a job 8 hours a day, keep up with daily life maintenance, spend time with family and enjoy leisure have time to educate themselves on their own oppression. We are not taught to question the government sponsored education to even comprehend we need further education to understand our oppression. And for this reason most people do not self-educate outside of the US education paradigm. Most are fighting for freedom inside of a system prepared for this fight. This is the fight they have programmed in us and have prepared for but we have other options. When the enemy knows your strategy, has superior technology, weapons, intelligence and educated you they have the upper hand. It is time for a new game plan. It is time to render unto Caesar what is Caesar’s, meaning it is time to relinquish their titles and government in exchange for our own. We can create our own title and the laws that govern that title as indigenous people have done forever and have the right to do. Black people are literally playing checkers while the US government and their constituents are playing chest. Most do not know the foundation of their oppression because they were educated by their oppressor. It is time to free our minds and truly build for ourselves. We are indigenous to this land and therefore have the right to self-govern. We can have many groups are come under one title, the choice is ours. This is true freedom and ours to claim. Visit www.4tcministries.org to learn about a solution already in place and how we can build on this foundation. It is time to BUILD!
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